"And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God." (Romans 12:2)
Here are some advices for young ladies who want to treasure Christ above all things in their life: check your heart, your daily living and your relationship with the Lord.
1. Your heart: remember that the genuineness of it must be your first priority.
This is a point inspired by the modesty checklist of Miss Jocelyn: your heart. Because yes, of course, you could wear very decent clothes, that are modest and feminine. You can even read the Bible 10 hours a day. But is your heart truly humble ? It is clean of all pride, lust, bitterness stains ? As children of God, we have to be the light of the world, that's why we perform good deeds, although they don't save us, help us to grow in faith.
So avoid every hypocrisy, don't be like pharisees. They wore respectable clothes, they were religious but most of them had a corrupt heart. All in name of religion ! So let the Holy Spirit work in you, then your attitude, the way you dress and everuthing in your life will be transformed.
"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God."
2. Your daily living: Tell me why what you're living for, I'll tell you who you are.
ALL THINGS, in your life, must be linked to Christ. Sorry, let's be more accurate: ALL THINGS, in your life, must lead upon Christ and be built on Him.
I just love what Paul Washer once said in a sermon, it was something like: "You cannot say to anyone "you have a good job a nice husband or wife, a beautiful house, but you just lack one thing, Christ." If you don't have Him in your life, you have nothing." So show me your aim by your deeds, so I can see that the Lord is not an accessory for you but rather your life.
Let's give an example. I love science, especially genetics and biology. And I don't want to study it to boast, and to think that I am the best, never ! I do not even want that thought to cross my mind. I want to study and strive for His Glory. But what does "work for His Glory" means exactly ? It's simply live for the Lord, whether you wash the dishes or prepare tonight's dinner. It includes your whole life; your feminity, your actions, everything, in order to honor the Lord Jesus. That's one of the reason that you shouldn't complain, because you have to remember that even the unpleasant or hardest thing to do is for the Lord.
And these actions show your aime. So thats why, when I study biology, anthropology or anything else, I say to myself: "I'll see how, through science, I can understand the amazing creation and the universe, and how I can prove to the evolutionnists that there is a God."
3. Your relationship with the Lord: Practicing the presence of God.
A fundamental principle, which is also an nice book that I strongly recommand you to read.
Live, knowing that The Lord is looking at you at every moment of your life. Stamp integrity on your eyeballs, in such a way that your attitude be the same everywhere, both at home, school and church. Test yourself ! Do you feel that when you walk into church, your attitude is diametrically different than the one you usually have ?
Remember that if men are not always here to see you, the Lord is. To keep that in mind, I often think of biblical characters such as Daniel. He was living in Babylon, that corrupt city which we fight against today. He was always obeying to God's Law, despite all the corruption and temptations surrounding him.
"Because your lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise You." ( Psalms 63:3)